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3 Rules to Get Away with Anything

Actual tips to help you never get caught in another lie, that don’t involve telling the whole truth

Sanjay Singhal
3 min readNov 11, 2023
Don’t repeat these to anybody else — created in Midjourney

I read a great post, one of many, from Smillew Rahcuef, about lying successfully. Amateur. I can tell he’s lying at least 70% of the time, and possibly 100% of the time.

Link to his post at the end of this one. Before we get there, here are my actual (drum roll)…

3 Rules To Get Away With Anything™

I got these from a friend who vouches for them. I of course would never stoop to these tactics regardless of efficacy.

That was a lie!

And an obvious one. Now let’s see how much better we can get.

1. Wrap the lie around a nugget of truth.

Never create a lie that is a complete fabrication. Having an easily verifiable or believable element lessens the listeners desire to challenge the rest.

In this case, I would say “Look, everyone knows you can’t maintain a lie if you’re challenged. It’s impossible to stick to the fiction because it didn’t actually happen.”

Everyone wants to believe a statement like this. There’s your nugget of truth, or believability.

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Sanjay Singhal
Sanjay Singhal

Written by Sanjay Singhal

I write about how to manage your career and life by telling stories about how I've botched my own career and life.

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